Sunday, October 18, 2009

June 17, 2009 (from my private journal)- The Genetic Counselor

My husband and I met with the genetic counselor today.  I didn't really know what to expect.  It was all very scientific, talk about chromosomes and lack thereof and sex genes.  We gave our family history to the best of our knowledge.  I was the first cleft as far back as we could trace and there had been no cleft on my husband's side.  The doctor perfomed a short exam on me consiting of measuring my head, distance between my eyes and other strange things.  After a very nerve-wracking couple of hours we left with an answer of "it is highly unlikely that any chromosomal defect is present and that the baby's cleft is probably a result of maternal genetics."  Highly unlikely was not good enough for me and I decided to still opt for the amnio although my fear of needles was telling me not to do it.

He also said that if we chose to have a third baby, it's chances of having a cleft would be 50% since we have one without a cleft and one with a cleft.  This solidified it for me, there will NOT be a third, I don't think I could bare having another child with a cleft!

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